I went back to my hometown this weekend. After returning to my cozy 11x13 new home, I realized that over the past few weeks, I have changed. I could not wait to claim my independence last month, I was so excited about no curfews, and being on my own. This past Friday night I went to the high school football game, where my brother plays quarterback and my dad is a coach. The game was bittersweet, I didn't belong there anymore, but it was a nice visit. Saturday, I hung out with my family, and then went to my friend's cabin. But along with the visit came my annoying curfew. I was also under the watchful eye of my townsfolk once again.
In the mission statement MC talks about encouraging the students to grow emotionally, here I have independence and responsibilities that I do not have at home. I can't say that I emotionally feel different this quickly, but I see how after four years a person can't help but be different. I have always been very close to my mom. When I am away I have to fend for myself much more than at home, and this will help me grow. My mother has two favorite, in my opinion, overused sayings.
"Your allowed to be picky," I have to decide now who I surround myself with in this new setting. I believe friends can have a major influence on life. I want to make friends that help me grow, and make these next four years memorable.
"To whom much is given, much is expected." I have the best parents. They have given me so much in life, and now that I am away from them I have to remember that everything I do is a reflection on them. I take this responsibility seriously, and hope to make them proud.
These are just a few ways I think MC will help me grow emotionally over the next four years. I want to become someone my parents will be proud of, and surround myself with loving, good friends while I receive my education.
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I know exactly what you mean. I went home with you this weekend and felt oddly displaced. Anyway you're a great roommate and we will have tons of fun and make great memories this year! Just hang in there dear it's already looking brighter!
Love ya!
nice post. im see those same differences in my shift from being under my parents and switching to independent living.
I haven't been home yet, so thanks for the possible warning. I am going home this coming weekend. But I think that it is really cool that you want to reflect how your parents raised you, because there are people who just will get out there and go crazy and try to hurt their parents because of all the rules that was placed on them.
Personally for me, I'm finding it strange that I'm really getting used to the campus and liking it. I'm a bit of a cynic on things. However, I'm almost getting to where my dormroom seems more like home to me.
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